Online Dating has Left Me Jaded

The title is slightly misleading. Online “dating” is not really happening for me at this point. I haven’t been on a “date” for a couple of months, and that’s okay in the grand scheme of things. But in looking at my current site of choice (OKCupid), I have found myself frustrated with the entire process.

Part of me wants to think that my lack of successes is partly due to the fact that I have been a passive participant in the site for around six months. With my pending move to Illinois, and my subsequent absence for a year, I just didn’t want to get too invested in looking for Mrs. Wright — aka The Next Mrs. Eberhard — in a place that I wouldn’t be for at least a year, not wanting to waste the time of either party. Continue reading “Online Dating has Left Me Jaded”